On Saturday 30th April we met for the fourth time as the Lancashire Roofbreakers network. Over 20 of us met, and listened to 3 great talks that prompted a lot of discussion and questions, which was fantastic.
Talk 1 – setting up an additional needs ministry for children and the wider church
James and Sarah talked to us about how they had planned to put provision in place for children with additional needs in their children’s activities on a Sunday morning. But more than that, they had put together a 3 part plan to develop awareness and engagement from the wider church, with the ultimate aim of getting everyone aware and equipped for including children, young people and adults in their church.
James had put together a training evening for the children’s workers, (which was very similar to the All Inclusive training done by Mark Arnold from Urban Saints) and has rolled up his sleeves to get involved in the Sunday children’s work each week. From there, he and Sarah can implement the advice, support others doing so and speak to parents of children with additional needs. I was very impressed by the lengths they had gone to in order to listen to children and parents so that what they needed was made available. Sarah showed us some of the resources they were using and gave us chance to look at them through the morning.
Secondly, James and Sarah have attended leaders’ meetings and presented their vision and plan so that the leaders understand, know and can support what they are trying to do. They have spoken to smaller committees and leadership teams and are hoping to speak to every group in the church. This is a good approach…communication and having everyone be aware means that what they are trying to do will be understood, supported and hopefully adopted by others.
Finally, James and Sarah shared a wider vision…to reach out to the community. To tell them through the community newsletter what they are doing and what is available at the church for those with additional needs and disabilities. We all know families and individuals that find church hard, or who came once and felt that they weren’t going to fit in, and they want to make a way for people to come back to church, or come for the first time, feeling that they will be understood and supported with care and acceptance.
Talk 2 – Disability and Jesus
We were excited that Dave, Jarvis the guide dog and Bill had travelled over from the North East to join us and grateful that the snow earlier in the week hadn’t stopped them coming.
They came to tell us about how and why Disability and Jesus was set up, what they believe about disability and about their conference in June.
First they talked about how they want to develop a Relational model of disability. Our society looks at disability as a medical (disabled by medical causes) or social (disabled by society excluding or not valuing) issue. Relational is about that we are all this together – all of us. As Christians, and human beings we are all in relation with each other and should be journeying together towards our goal of being more like Jesus.
Bill said that we are all made in the image of God. A God who doesn’t make mistakes. They also spoke about Jesus how exercised an inclusive ministry. He drew in those who were excluded. His ministry was one of incredible inclusion and welcome. They then went on to talk about the difference between healing and cure. Healing being, coming to terms with your disability and being at peace with who you are with that disability. Cure is taking that disability away. God can do that but the healing is the most important thing. The important part of healing is peace with God. It gave way to lots of interesting and important discussion about healing and the wants and hopes of different people. Disability and Jesus will be giving people an opportunity to look at the Biblical basis of disability, healing and inclusion at their forthcoming conference https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/towards-a-theology-of-disability-tickets-24367371464?utm_term=eventurl_text
The practical application of being relational with people with disabilities in church is about stopping people building walls between groups of people. They suggested we ought to be radical about hospitality, inclusion, welcome. Asking why do we segregate people? How can we all come together and make it accessible for everyone.
We should be doing what Jesus did and going out and finding disabled people, sharing the gospel and bringing them in from where they are. Making sure that what they encounter is the right ATTITUDE.
It’s not the church building – it’s the welcome and attitude that speaks more than any ramps or accessible toilets. It goes beyond ACCOMMODATION – providing separate access. It’s about INCLUSION in what everyone does.
Being community, all flourishing TOGETHER is what God wants.
Talk 3 – Alma Johnson
Alma began with a startling question…
“Is my church a safe place?”
She then shared some of her own testimony and challenges of having a personality disorder to challenge us all about what made church safe for people like her and other conditions, that meant being in one place with large crowds of people were just too overwhelming and therefore made church unsafe and inaccessible.
Alma herself has written a blog post about what she shared and so I will post it as the next blog so you can read it from her own words.